You are right , but none told me that I need pursue my dream when I’m in schools , while I noticed that I should pursue my dream , I already waste lot of time in university . I think next generation of Chinese can have more opportunities to do what they like .
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一起去神牛2025-02-15
It's easy for you to say when you at least have the money you need which most chinese don't.
Don't agree. That's why US is declining and China is rising.
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花归啊2025-02-12
是这样的，至少我也是这么认为的
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阿米娅是树洞哦2025-07-17
Teacher，I have some Pressure that high score，I don't know how to do it，Only want to learning biology and Physical ，so tired.I only have one year，After that go to university，I fail to focus on my spirit，Maybe i have attention to do it，Not continue。
去看下载2025-04-30
沙哈尔可以讨论的去学校，是为了追求什么？追求志同道合的朋友，追求兴趣和事物研究
我是太阳7172025-03-01
The major assumption and flaw behind many of your central theory, Dr. Ben-Shahar, is that you assume contradiction between being sucessful in a society’s sense and being meaningful to an individual, while such contradiction is not an absolute guarantee. They can reconcile and live with each other while each being necessary for true happiness. This assumption of yours leads your theories to major flaws of your life advice. I advise you to carefully reconsider.
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我疑惑的是，孩子如果不加以引导，她是不会对医学，法律，计算机，机械，能源，数学，物理，化学……感兴趣的。她只会对吃零食，动画片，盲盒，明星，跳舞感兴趣…… 我该如何让她就动画片背后的计算机特效，零食背后的食品工程，盲盒背后的市场运营，明星背后的资本运作，感兴趣呢？[吃瓜]
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完全赞同，到一定年纪就发现所谓世俗成功并不带来幸福，踏踏实实追寻自己喜爱的事业或者家庭等，反而美好
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成功是做事做到一定程度后的附带，不是目的，但我总是忘记
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追求上名校是为了更多的可能性！和优秀的人一起，自己也能变得更好。如果你有自己的目标，并且非常坚定，那上不上名校就没那么重要了，去做能让自己满足的事就可以了。很多成年人都认为自己的人生已经定型了，过着简单满足的生活，但是对于小孩来说，未来是什么，根本不能确定！让自己在不确定的未来有有更多可能挺好的！
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教授，从积极心理学视角看，长期生活在语言暴力环境下如何自救呢？
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他女儿去哈佛可能就是一封推荐信的事[doge]
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放心，以后都是AI教学，不用上学，大家心里其实都清楚，学校和老师会有一个说不清长短的过渡期，可能不会完全消失，只是逐渐被更符合人们需求的替代。 这不是我说的，是资本家逐利一直在做的，节省成本，增加利润。 短视频浪费了多少人最好的青春年华，有管过吗？经济至上。
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Intellectual wellbeing Spiritual wellbeing Relational wellbeing
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很好！但请注意：读书、读他人之书，只是获得已有知识的途径之一，更重要的是自己探索和发现新知识，所以最重要的是：热爱生活、享受人生 —— 以人为本，人人平等。各有所长，人尽其才。百花齐放，繁荣昌盛。现在最急需的是均衡各行各业待遇，同时均衡发展各地各级各类学校，让学生按照自己内心和兴趣去发展。如果还像办体育争金牌一样办教育（一味刷题和死记硬背），银牌及以下的都是失败者，内卷会愈演愈烈，近视、手机成瘾、抑郁、堕落甚至坠楼的会越来越多。补充一下，兴趣爱好才是最重要的幸福之源，也是在以后的人工智能时代最重要的生存法宝。更细致的介绍，请百度“杨少波的博客的微博”。
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名校带来了更高的平台，更高的平台代表着更优秀的人，优秀的人带来了更多的机会更多的合作可能，那就意味着社会关系和收入。 特别搞笑的是网上经常能看到大量点赞的评论说诶呀一个人过得好过得妙要朋友要社会关系干什么，这种人的人生就和他们的认知一样短浅以及悲剧。
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You are right , but none told me that I need pursue my dream when I’m in schools , while I noticed that I should pursue my dream , I already waste lot of time in university . I think next generation of Chinese can have more opportunities to do what they like .
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It's easy for you to say when you at least have the money you need which most chinese don't.
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只需要知道一点，一个人在追求名望，金钱，权利这个所谓向上攀爬追逐的过程中，是一定会失去内心真正的宝物也就是纯粹的品质
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说的太好了 非常支持 但是真正按照自己想法来 ，社会和家庭都会有阻力，很难但是是正确的路[打call][打call][打call]
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Don't agree. That's why US is declining and China is rising.
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是这样的，至少我也是这么认为的
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Teacher，I have some Pressure that high score，I don't know how to do it，Only want to learning biology and Physical ，so tired.I only have one year，After that go to university，I fail to focus on my spirit，Maybe i have attention to do it，Not continue。
沙哈尔可以讨论的去学校，是为了追求什么？追求志同道合的朋友，追求兴趣和事物研究
The major assumption and flaw behind many of your central theory, Dr. Ben-Shahar, is that you assume contradiction between being sucessful in a society’s sense and being meaningful to an individual, while such contradiction is not an absolute guarantee. They can reconcile and live with each other while each being necessary for true happiness. This assumption of yours leads your theories to major flaws of your life advice. I advise you to carefully reconsider.
追求不同，这好比为什么要去国外去镀金一样，圈子也就不一样，有些话很俗但是道理却是一样的，幸福和上什么学校是没关系的，和你的追求有关